adultery is for people who haven't grown out of puberty. if you are really adult, you are honest about everything that you do, and if you tell your husband or wife that you go to bed with others it's not adultery any more. with this adult attitude, with this honesty, you give your husband or wife information that he/she urgently needs to decide how life is going on for them. to be absolutely honest is an adult attitude, you are not cheating people.
